The question many have been, "Whats up with her?" many must be wondering why I opened a blog for being fat when my plan is to lose weight. Well, I say I'm losing weight for my health and not for vanity. My father has diabetes, this disease is hereditary in which in case I could have if I don't take care of myself. I also want to lose some weight because I have a baby 2 years old and I'm 18 so I want to be able to go for a run with my son without run out of breath. I want to enjoy life without having to have health problems and etc. . Before my desire was to be skinny , but I came to the conclusion that I dont anymore !My point is if you don't want to be fat then change, if you want to lose weight , but lets live without being depressed ! noone deserves to feel that way ! That is why I'm here giving you all advice . I dont wan't any of you to go through I did . I want you guys to understand the potential that you girls have! If you ever feel like eating something sweet, salty,or fried? eat once it wont kill you, there is no need for you if sacrifice yourself because of a craving your body sometimes asks for. If you have trouble controlling your cravings send me a message on facebook I'll give you all the tips on how to manage your anxiety ,since I also have learned to control myself . Add me on facebook, and I will answer all of you :) https://www.facebook.com/claudia.t.alencar
GOING INSANE , READY TO KILL !
The WORST time of a life for a fat girl is when its time to get dressed ! And every time we cry, freak the freak out, hate ourselves , and wishes the world dies ( a similar feeling when you are in your period , completely going NUTS ) . At that exact moment depression comes , the lack of love for yourself. For me that's normal already went through this and I know that you and chubby already went through the same too. Well I'm here to advise you overweight ladies how to dress. You can feel sexy, and powerful , without smudging your mascara because mascara now a days is expensive and we have to save money LOL . Anyway let's start by your intimates! never leave home without a good bra to lift your breasts, and so rule number one, because we have to raise our little friends and let them well up and the bra will do the rest of the miracle. Rule number two for all chubby ladies especially for those like me who have large abdomen not use low waist pants!! it is a fashion crime literally! also because no one deserves to see our "butt crack" that's unacceptable. I only buy high waist pants so I can lift it up high to my breasts and cover it up with a shirt (also using body shapers) then reduces most of my fats i'll record a video and post it here for you girls to see how I use it , so you girls can practice at home . I heard something today that really pissed me off and I decided to post "Fat people can't use a belt, because they look like a popping sack of potatoes tied in the middle" Only idiots that has the courage to open their mouth and say some immature comment like that . Those people are racist , and they don't know how to dress either !.My beautiful ladies , fat girls may use belts at any time they want ! On my next video I will show you girls some of my closet for all of you to know how I use them and what type of clothes is appropriate with it. I wear size 1 bigger than my original size so I can feel comfortable and not make me look like an idiot. (I HATE TIGHT CLOTHES THAT SHOWS MY UNNECESSARY FATS ) My size is 2x But I buy 3x but there is some clothes that is impossible for me to buy 3x so I get 2x instead .
WHO EVER SAID FAT GIRLS CAN'T USE BELTS , THEY MUST NOT KNOW HOW TO DRESS
Today I'm going to talk a little bit about Criticism. In life there will always be that someone who criticize you , specially if your overweight. I was the type of girl who would cry every time someone would make fun of me , that was also one of the reasons I had depression for the fact of always listening to the rude comments people would make about me , but thank God this is not a problem in my life anymore. I had many people make fun of me throughout my pregnancy ,people say that I was lying about being pregnant because they wouldn't see my belly grow and etc ; But my point is that its not going to work if we think that we will get rid of people criticizing us , because we wont its a FACT! Criticism for me is just like cockroaches , we kill them , we disinfect them , we get frustrated with their presence and yet they still come back LOL ! In the first place my loves, I wanted to let all of you know that we have to love ourselves so people can also love us . I have suffered alot with every type of criticism and maybe you that is reading my post right now has also suffered like me. My advice to all of you is that you shouldn't care for what others think about you , you are beautiful in your own way , it doesn't matter if this or that person say horrible things about you , just because your overweight ! Because everyone has an opinion , it doesn't matter if they think your ugly and humiliate you . YOU SHOULD NEVER PUT YOUR HEAD DOWN AND FEEL GUILTY ABOUT YOURSELF! WE HAVE TO SAY NO TO ALL RACISM ! SAY NO TO BULLYING ! SAY NO TO ALL THOSE IDIOTS THAT HAS NOTHING TO OFFER YOU ! Be happy God made you so perfectly , that if you ever knew how beautiful you are , you would never feel down about yourself ! God knows about everything , maybe sometimes you have probably asked yourself many times like I did , If you were ever to find someone special who can love just the way you are even though your fat ? Well this is my answer YES ! God puts the right person in your life , in the right time ! There's no need to freak out and get depressed because everything has a purpose. Never let anyone say that your not special ! because before you were born God had already dreamed of you . My point of view is don't lower yourself, Don't think your worthless ! Its not because of your weight that you are inferior to other woman. Skinny , Fat , tall ,short, white, and black girls are beautiful in their own way !Examine yourself see how beautiful you are ! See your qualities because they are worth more than physical appearance. There is no bigger beauty than a woman's heart. There's a quote that I love , "Fat girls are big to carry the big heart they have" something like that , I don't remember exactly how it is but its true ! I don't know whats your problem , what has been your biggest criticism that had made you suffer , but one thing I will tell you is that don't ever let yourself give up ! Life is beautiful , but short ..Many will love you , many wont but that's not important because there is a God who loves you and cares about you all the time. Do what I have been doing everyday , use these criticisms to help you succeed ! You are wonderful , you were born to shine ! You don't have to be a star to shine , but you must have that spotlight shine on you ! Xoxo Love you all <3
I would like to thank all wonderful women who always look after me. They are THE BEST ! I Recommend all their services they have to offer and I know that no one will ever regret. I want to start talking a little bit about my hairdresser Livia Lima . Who always took good care of my hair, always makes me smile . She was the one who inspired me to start my blog! She's a sweet person , she is one of the first salon owners that I see that is always so dedicated with their clients , shes always happy, spreading on that good energy sometimes we need when we are at a hair salon , she is also very wise. I thank her for all she has done and still does for me! just to know that she believes in me and she is always cheering for my success thats already a blessing in my life! Thank you Livia your the best!! I would like to also thank my second hairdresser Garlys Montero whenever I need her she is there to do my hair , This girl has talent ! So young with bright future ahead of her. Vilma Caroba my manicure has always been by my side and has given me strength to never give up since the day of my wedding day! She is funny, always happy about life, helpful, caring, always leaving my nails perfect ! she has a huge space inside my heart and I know she has always supported me and I am very grateful to have her as a manicure and also as a good friend .
I wanted to also thank my second manicure Thaynara Moraes I met her when she arrived here in the U.S.A . She is a girl that is so young with great nail designs , a sweet girl, determined , she fights for her goals , I admire her. Now my final thanks goes to Vanessa Moreira "Glamour Makeup" She is my makeup artist, I've never seen a person so cheerful like her , who does her work with love, not alot of people had the faith she had in me, always cheering for my success, I am very happy to have her as my makeup artist , she does an excellent job ! I am very happy to attend this salon that has supported me , that had always a special affection for my family and I ! Also recommend excellent hairdressers Ana Claudia, Aguinaldo, and Luciano, people who are excellent professionals and always willing to serve you .This salon is a blessing in our lives in the city of Marlborough, MA